September...
My father passed away last Wednesday from Alzheimer's Disease. He turned 79 three days before he passed away, and on his birthday nine of us were with him and he looked at all of us intently that day. That was the last day I saw him where it appeared he was aware of things that were going on around him.
We deeply mourn him, but I know he's in a better place now and is at peace. He suffered so much in the past few months, and actually years.
There are a million things to say about him, but the best thing I can say is we loved each other lot, we understood each other very well, and he will always be with me. He taught me so much! I thank God for his life, and for the years we had with him.
Here's a photo of my dad and I dancing on my wedding day--almost 27 years ago. He was a fantastic dancer, and taught me how to do the swing dances from the 40's and
50's.
Finally, a poem we had printed in his memorial folder:
The Next Place
The next place that I go
Will be as peaceful and familiar
As a sleepy summer Sunday
And a sweet, untroubled mind.
Once I read these words:
"Grief is the price we pay for love." Such true words, indeed.
We deeply mourn him, but I know he's in a better place now and is at peace. He suffered so much in the past few months, and actually years.
There are a million things to say about him, but the best thing I can say is we loved each other lot, we understood each other very well, and he will always be with me. He taught me so much! I thank God for his life, and for the years we had with him.
Here's a photo of my dad and I dancing on my wedding day--almost 27 years ago. He was a fantastic dancer, and taught me how to do the swing dances from the 40's and
50's.
Finally, a poem we had printed in his memorial folder:
The Next Place
The next place that I go
Will be as peaceful and familiar
As a sleepy summer Sunday
And a sweet, untroubled mind.
Once I read these words:
"Grief is the price we pay for love." Such true words, indeed.
Labels: family
7 Comments:
At September 2, 2008 at 1:58 AM , Chiloe said...
Sorry for your lost ... that illness sucks ... (((hugs))))
At September 2, 2008 at 9:43 AM , Joy said...
Sue, I am so sorry to read of the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.
At September 2, 2008 at 1:29 PM , Windy said...
What a lovely pic of you two. You were a wonderful daughter from the beginning until the end.
Love,
Stick
At September 2, 2008 at 5:06 PM , Anonymous said...
I'm so sorry for your loss, Sue {{{hugs}}}
At September 2, 2008 at 9:09 PM , Veronica said...
I'm so sorry for you loss, Sue. {{{{Hugz}}}} That's a lovely picture of the both of you together.
At September 2, 2008 at 10:19 PM , Road Trip With Ruby said...
Sue, you have my deepest sympathy. I hope your memories of the love you shared give you comfort at this sad time.
Take care, Tanya
At September 3, 2008 at 7:11 PM , Debi said...
Sue, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Lots of (virtual) hugs for you and your family.
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